The good, the bad, and the Borderline: Separating teasing from bullying

Communication Education

Volumn 58, Issue 2, 2009, Pages 276-301

  Mills, Carol Bishop ^a   Carwile, Amy Muckleroy ^a  

^a UNIVERSITY OF ALABAMA   (United States)

Author keywords

Bullying; Children; Humor; Intervention; Teasing

Indexed keywords

EID: 70449589223     PISSN: 03634523     EISSN: 14795795     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1080/03634520902783666     Document Type: Article

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