Just Teasing: A Conceptual Analysis and Empirical Review

Psychological Bulletin

Volumn 127, Issue 2, 2001, Pages 229-248

  Keltner, Dacher ^a   Capps, Lisa ^a   Kring, Ann M ^a   Young, Randall C ^a   Heerey, Erin A ^a  

^a UNIVERSITY OF CALIFORNIA   (United States)

Author keywords

[No Author keywords available]

Indexed keywords

ARTICLE; CULTURAL FACTOR; FEMALE; HOSTILITY; HUMAN; HUMAN RELATION; MALE; PSYCHOLOGICAL ASPECT; PSYCHOLOGICAL MODEL; RECREATION; SEX DIFFERENCE; SOCIAL BEHAVIOR;

CULTURAL CHARACTERISTICS; FEMALE; HOSTILITY; HUMANS; INTERPERSONAL RELATIONS; MALE; MODELS, PSYCHOLOGICAL; PLAY AND PLAYTHINGS; SEX FACTORS; SOCIAL BEHAVIOR;

EID: 0035291344     PISSN: 00332909     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1037/0033-2909.127.2.229     Document Type: Article

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