‘I accept my son for who he is – he has incredible character and personality’: fathers’ positive experiences of parenting children with autism

Disability and Society

Volumn 31, Issue 7, 2016, Pages 948-965

  Potter, Carol A ^a  

^a LEEDS METROPOLITAN UNIVERSITY   (United Kingdom)

Author keywords

autism; Fathers; models of childhood disability; models of fatherhood; positive experience

Indexed keywords

EID: 84981747674     PISSN: 09687599     EISSN: 13600508     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1080/09687599.2016.1216393     Document Type: Article

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