Self-compassion: What it is, what it does, and how it relates to mindfulness

Handbook of Mindfulness and Self-Regulation

Volumn , Issue , 2015, Pages 121-140

  Neff, Kristin D ^a   Dahm, Katie A ^a  

^a UNIVERSITY OF TEXAS AT AUSTIN   (United States)

Author keywords

Acceptance; Common humanity; Compassion; definition; Emotional resilience; Mindful self compassion; Mindfulness; Psychotherapy; Self compassion; Self esteem; Self kindness

Indexed keywords

EID: 84956721814     PISSN: None     EISSN: None     Source Type: Book    
DOI: 10.1007/978-1-4939-2263-5_10     Document Type: Chapter

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