The Relationship between Self-compassion and Other-focused Concern among College Undergraduates, Community Adults, and Practicing Meditators

Self and Identity

Volumn 12, Issue 2, 2013, Pages 160-176

  Neff, Kristin D ^a   Pommier, Elizabeth ^a  

^a UNIVERSITY OF TEXAS AT AUSTIN   (United States)

Author keywords

Altruism; Compassion; Empathy; Forgiveness; Prosocial behavior; Self compassion

Indexed keywords

EID: 84869868320     PISSN: 15298868     EISSN: 15298876     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1080/15298868.2011.649546     Document Type: Article

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