The expression of compassionate love in everyday compassionate acts

Journal of Social and Personal Relationships

Volumn 31, Issue 5, 2014, Pages 651-676

  Reis, Harry T ^a   Maniaci, Michael R ^a   Rogge, Ronald D ^a  

^a UNIVERSITY OF ROCHESTER   (United States)

Author keywords

Love; marriage

Indexed keywords

EID: 84903699335     PISSN: 02654075     EISSN: 14603608     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/0265407513507214     Document Type: Article

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