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Volumn , Issue , 2009, Pages 92-120

Understanding and altering hurt feelings: An attachment-theoretical perspective on the generation and regulation of emotions

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EID: 84927010441     PISSN: None     EISSN: None     Source Type: Book    
DOI: 10.1017/CBO9780511770548.007     Document Type: Chapter
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