Relational quality and communicative responses following hurtful events in dating relationships: An expectancy violations analysis

Journal of Social and Personal Relationships

Volumn 23, Issue 6, 2006, Pages 943-963

  Bachman, Guy Foster ^a   Guerrero, Laura K ^b  

^a CALIFORNIA STATE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^b ARIZONA STATE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

Author keywords

Break up; Commitment; Communication; Expectancy violations; Hurtful events; Hurtful messages; Relational satisfaction; Rewards; Uncertainty

Indexed keywords

EID: 33751556661     PISSN: 02654075     EISSN: 14603608     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/0265407506070476     Document Type: Article

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