Compassionate love: Accomplishments and challenges in an emerging scientific/spiritual research field

Mental Health, Religion and Culture

Volumn 14, Issue 9, 2011, Pages 945-981

  Oman, Doug ^a  

^a UNIVERSITY OF CALIFORNIA   (United States)

Author keywords

altruism; compassion; compassionate love; empathy; love; religion; spirituality

Indexed keywords

EID: 84859138300     PISSN: 13674676     EISSN: 14699737     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1080/13674676.2010.541430     Document Type: Article

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