Initiating and evaluating close relationships: A task central to emerging adults

Romantic Relationships in Emerging Adulthood

Volumn , Issue , 2010, Pages 190-212

  Clark, Margaret S ^a   Beck, Lindsey A ^a  

^a YALE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

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EID: 84859011392     PISSN: None     EISSN: None     Source Type: Book    
DOI: 10.1017/CBO9780511761935.011     Document Type: Chapter

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