Understanding relational focus of attention may help us understand relational phenomena

Social Relationships: Cognitive, Affective, and Motivational Processes

Volumn , Issue , 2008, Pages 131-146

  Clark, Margaret S ^a   Graham, Steven M ^b   Williams, Erin ^a   Lemay, Edward P ^c  

^a YALE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^b FLORIDA STATE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^c UNIVERSITY OF NEW HAMPSHIRE   (United States)

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DOI: 10.4324/9780203888124     Document Type: Chapter

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