The Dynamic Goal Theory of Marital Satisfaction

Review of General Psychology

Volumn 15, Issue 3, 2011, Pages 246-254

  Li, Tianyuan ^a   Fung, Helene H ^a  

^a CHINESE UNIVERSITY OF HONG KONG   (Hong Kong)

Author keywords

Life span development; Marital goal; Marital satisfaction

Indexed keywords

EID: 80052191712     PISSN: 10892680     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1037/a0024694     Document Type: Article

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