Virtue is its own reward? Support-giving in the family and loneliness in middle and old age

Ageing and Society

Volumn 28, Issue 2, 2008, Pages 271-287

  De Jong Gierveld, Jenny ^a   Dykstra, Pearl A ^a  

^a NETHERLANDS INTERDISCIPLINARY DEMOGRAPHIC INSTITUTE   (Netherlands)

Author keywords

Altruism; Exchange; Family; Generations; Loneliness; Middle generation adults; Support giving

Indexed keywords

ALTRUISM; CHILD CARE; ELDERLY POPULATION; FAMILY STRUCTURE;

BENELUX; EURASIA; EUROPE; NETHERLANDS; WESTERN EUROPE;

EID: 38649123314     PISSN: 0144686X     EISSN: 14691779     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1017/S0144686X07006629     Document Type: Article

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