Perceiving regulation from intimate partners: Reflected appraisal and self-regulation processes in close relationships

Personal Relationships

Volumn 17, Issue 3, 2010, Pages 433-456

  Overall, Nickola C ^a   Fletcher, Garth J O ^b  

^a UNIVERSITY OF AUCKLAND   (New Zealand)

^b UNIVERSITY OF CANTERBURY   (New Zealand)

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EID: 77956402805     PISSN: 13504126     EISSN: 14756811     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1111/j.1475-6811.2010.01286.x     Document Type: Article

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