Hurtful family environments: Links with individual, relationship, and perceptual variables

Communication Monographs

Volumn 74, Issue 3, 2007, Pages 357-385

  Vangelisti, Anita L ^a   Maguire, Kathryn C ^b   Alexander, Alicia L ^c   Clark, Gretchen ^a  

^a UNIVERSITY OF TEXAS AT AUSTIN   (United States)

^b CLEVELAND STATE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^c SOUTHERN ILLINOIS UNIVERSITY EDWARDSVILLE   (United States)

Author keywords

Emotion; Family; Family Environments; Hurt; Hurt Feelings

Indexed keywords

EID: 34548358847     PISSN: 03637751     EISSN: 14795787     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1080/03637750701543477     Document Type: Article

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