Microaggressions, Feelings of Difference, and Resilience Among Adopted Children with Sexual Minority Parents

Journal of Youth and Adolescence

Volumn 45, Issue 1, 2016, Pages 85-104

  Farr, Rachel H ^a   Crain, Emily E ^b   Oakley, M K ^b   Cashen, Krystal K ^b   Garber, Karin J ^b  

^a UNIVERSITY OF KENTUCKY   (United States)

^b UNIVERSITY OF MASSACHUSETTS   (United States)

Author keywords

Adoption; Children; Lesbian and gay parents; Microaggressions; Resilience

Indexed keywords

ADOPTION; CHILD; CHILD PSYCHOLOGY; COPING BEHAVIOR; CROSS-SECTIONAL STUDY; EMOTION; FEMALE; HOMOSEXUALITY; HUMAN; MALE; MINORITY GROUP; PARENT; PRESCHOOL CHILD;

ADOPTION; CHILD; CHILD, PRESCHOOL; CROSS-SECTIONAL STUDIES; EMOTIONS; FEMALE; HOMOSEXUALITY; HUMANS; MALE; MINORITY GROUPS; PARENTS; PSYCHOLOGY, CHILD; RESILIENCE, PSYCHOLOGICAL;

EID: 84952715262     PISSN: 00472891     EISSN: 15736601     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1007/s10964-015-0353-6     Document Type: Article

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