Conceptualizing the influence of the past and the future in present parent-child relationships

Handbook of Dynamics in Parent-Child Relations

Volumn , Issue , 2003, Pages 67-88

  Lollis, Susan ^a  

^a UNIVERSITY OF GUELPH   (Canada)

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