Beyond one hand clapping: Seeing bidirectionality in parent-child relations

Journal of Social and Personal Relationships

Volumn 14, Issue 4, 1997, Pages 441-461

  Lollis, Susan ^a   Kuczynski, Leon ^b  

^a UNIVERSITY OF GUELPH   (Canada)

^b NONE

Author keywords

Interactions; Parent child relations; Relationships

Indexed keywords

EID: 0031534060     PISSN: 02654075     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/0265407597144002     Document Type: Article

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