Why do the lonely stay lonely? Chronically lonely adolescents' attributions and emotions in situations of social inclusion and exclusion

Journal of Personality and Social Psychology

Volumn 109, Issue 5, 2015, Pages 932-948

  Vanhalst, Janne ^a,b   Soenens, Bart ^c   Luyckx, Koen ^a   Van Petegem, Stijn ^c   Weeks, Molly S ^d   Asher, Steven R ^d  

^a UNIVERSITY OF LEUVEN   (Belgium)

^b RESEARCH FOUNDATION FLANDERS FWO   (Belgium)

^c GHENT UNIVERSITY   (Belgium)

^d DUKE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

Author keywords

Attributions; Emotions; Loneliness

Indexed keywords

ADOLESCENT; ADULT; EMOTION; FEMALE; HUMAN; LONELINESS; LONGITUDINAL STUDY; MALE; PERCEPTION; PSYCHOLOGY; SOCIAL ISOLATION; YOUNG ADULT;

ADOLESCENT; ADULT; EMOTIONS; FEMALE; HUMANS; LONELINESS; LONGITUDINAL STUDIES; MALE; SOCIAL ISOLATION; SOCIAL PERCEPTION; YOUNG ADULT;

EID: 84946488422     PISSN: 00223514     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1037/pspp0000051     Document Type: Article

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