The Meaning of the Sperm Donor for Heterosexual Couples: Confirming the Position of the Father

Family Process

Volumn 56, Issue 1, 2017, Pages 203-216

  Wyverkens, Elia ^a   Provoost, Veerle ^a   Ravelingien, An ^a   Pennings, Guido ^a   De Sutter, Petra ^b   Buysse, Ann ^a  

^a GHENT UNIVERSITY   (Belgium)

^b GHENT UNIVERSITY HOSPITAL   (Belgium)

Author keywords

Family Relationships; Gamete Donation; Infertility; Qualitative Research

Indexed keywords

ADULT; CHILD PARENT RELATION; FAMILY RELATION; FATHER; FEMALE; HETEROLOGOUS ARTIFICIAL INSEMINATION; HETEROSEXUALITY; HUMAN; MALE; PARENT; PSYCHOLOGY; QUALITATIVE RESEARCH; SEXUALITY;

ADULT; FAMILY RELATIONS; FATHERS; FEMALE; HETEROSEXUALITY; HUMANS; INSEMINATION, ARTIFICIAL, HETEROLOGOUS; MALE; PARENT-CHILD RELATIONS; PARENTS; QUALITATIVE RESEARCH; SEXUAL PARTNERS;

EID: 84929603715     PISSN: 00147370     EISSN: 15455300     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1111/famp.12156     Document Type: Article

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