Family Communication about Donor Conception: A Qualitative Study with Lesbian Parents

Family Process

Volumn 55, Issue 1, 2016, Pages 139-154

  Van Parys, Hanna ^a   Wyverkens, Elia ^a   Provoost, Veerle ^a   De Sutter, Petra ^b   Pennings, Guido ^a   Buysse, Ann ^a  

^a GHENT UNIVERSITY   (Belgium)

^b GHENT UNIVERSITY HOSPITAL   (Belgium)

Author keywords

Disclosure; Female; Homosexuality; Parent Child Relations; Qualitative Research

Indexed keywords

CHILD; CHILD PARENT RELATION; DONOR CONCEPTION; FAMILY; FEMALE; HUMAN; INFANT; INTERPERSONAL COMMUNICATION; LESBIANISM; MALE; PRESCHOOL CHILD; QUALITATIVE RESEARCH;

CHILD; CHILD, PRESCHOOL; COMMUNICATION; DONOR CONCEPTION; FAMILY; FEMALE; HOMOSEXUALITY, FEMALE; HUMANS; INFANT; MALE; PARENT-CHILD RELATIONS; QUALITATIVE RESEARCH; TRUTH DISCLOSURE;

EID: 84959888391     PISSN: 00147370     EISSN: 15455300     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1111/famp.12112     Document Type: Article

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