Using mental contrasting with implementation intentions to self-regulate insecurity-based behaviors in relationships

Motivation and Emotion

Volumn 37, Issue 2, 2013, Pages 224-233

  Houssais, Sylviane ^a   Oettingen, Gabriele ^a,b   Mayer, Doris ^b  

^a NEW YORK UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^b UNIVERSITY OF HAMBURG   (Germany)

Author keywords

Insecurity; Mental contrasting with implementation intentions (MCII); Relationships; Self regulation

Indexed keywords

EID: 84876965811     PISSN: 01467239     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1007/s11031-012-9307-4     Document Type: Article

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