Compassion and forgiveness: Implications for psychotherapy

Compassion: Conceptualisations, Research and Use in Psychotherapy

Volumn , Issue , 2005, Pages 168-192

  Worthington, Everett L ^a   O’Connor, Lynn E ^b   Berry, Jack W ^a   Sharp, Connie ^a   Murray, Rebecca ^b,c   Yi, Eunice ^b  

^a VIRGINIA COMMONWEALTH UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^b WRIGHT INSTITUTE   (United States)

^c BOSTON CHILDREN S HOSPITAL   (United States)

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DOI: 10.4324/9780203003459-10     Document Type: Chapter

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