The Positive Side of Negative Emotion: The Role of Guilt and Shame in Coping with Interpersonal Conflict

Journal of Conflict Resolution

Volumn 56, Issue 6, 2012, Pages 1116-1138

  Behrendt, Hadar ^a   Ben Ari, Rachel ^a  

^a BAR ILAN UNIVERSITY   (Israel)

Author keywords

conflict coping styles; conflict resolution; emotions; guilt; shame

Indexed keywords

EID: 84868640962     PISSN: 00220027     EISSN: 15528766     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/0022002712445746     Document Type: Article

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