Being open without talking about it: A rhetorical/normative approach to understanding topic avoidance in families after a lung cancer diagnosis

Communication Monographs

Volumn 78, Issue 4, 2011, Pages 409-436

  Caughlin, John P ^a   Mikucki Enyart, Sylvia L ^a   Middleton, Ashley V ^a   Stone, Anne M ^b   Brown, Laura E ^c  

^a UNIVERSITY OF ILLINOIS AT URBANA CHAMPAIGN   (United States)

^b PORTLAND STATE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^c UNIVERSITY OF TEXAS AT AUSTIN   (United States)

Author keywords

Coping; Lung cancer; Multiple goals; Normative approach; Topic avoidance

Indexed keywords

EID: 84855772423     PISSN: 03637751     EISSN: 14795787     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1080/03637751.2011.618141     Document Type: Article

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