Seeking security or growth: A regulatory focus perspective on motivations in romantic relationships

Journal of Personality and Social Psychology

Volumn 101, Issue 5, 2011, Pages 935-954

  Winterheld, Heike A ^a   Simpson, Jeffry A ^b  

^a CALIFORNIA STATE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^b UNIVERSITY OF MINNESOTA   (United States)

Author keywords

Close relationships; Couples; Regulatory focus; Self regulation

Indexed keywords

ADOLESCENT; ADULT; ARTICLE; COMPARATIVE STUDY; CONFLICT; EMOTION; FEMALE; HUMAN; HUMAN RELATION; MALE; MIDDLE AGED; MOTIVATION; PERCEPTION; PHYSIOLOGY; PSYCHOLOGIC TEST; PSYCHOLOGICAL ASPECT; SEXUALITY;

ADOLESCENT; ADULT; CONFLICT (PSYCHOLOGY); EMOTIONS; FEMALE; HUMANS; INTERPERSONAL RELATIONS; MALE; MIDDLE AGED; MOTIVATION; PSYCHOLOGICAL TESTS; SEXUAL PARTNERS; SOCIAL PERCEPTION; YOUNG ADULT;

EID: 82855171116     PISSN: 00223514     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1037/a0025012     Document Type: Article

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