Perceived partner responsiveness minimizes defensive reactions to failure

Social Psychological and Personality Science

Volumn 2, Issue 4, 2011, Pages 365-372

  Caprariello, Peter A ^a   Reis, Harry T ^a  

^a UNIVERSITY OF ROCHESTER   (United States)

Author keywords

Defensiveness; Failure; Perceived responsiveness; Priming; Self handicapping

Indexed keywords

EID: 80051762887     PISSN: 19485506     EISSN: 19485514     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/1948550610391914     Document Type: Article

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