The Social Costs and Benefits of Anger as a Function of Gender and Relationship Context

Sex Roles

Volumn 65, Issue 1, 2011, Pages 23-34

  Fischer, Agneta H ^a   Evers, Catharine ^b  

^a UNIVERSITY OF AMSTERDAM   (Netherlands)

^b UTRECHT UNIVERSITY   (Netherlands)

Author keywords

Anger; Gender; Relationship context; Social appraisal

Indexed keywords

EID: 79958854154     PISSN: 03600025     EISSN: 15732762     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1007/s11199-011-9956-x     Document Type: Article

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