Interdependence, closeness, and relationships

Handbook of Closeness and Intimacy

Volumn , Issue , 2004, Pages 137-161

  Rusbult, Caryl E ^a   Kumashiro, Madoka ^a   Coolsen, Michael K ^a   Kirchner, Jeffrey L ^a  

^a UNIVERSITY OF NORTH CAROLINA   (United States)

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