Self-control and accommodation in close relationships: An interdependence analysis

Journal of Personality and Social Psychology

Volumn 81, Issue 2, 2001, Pages 263-277

  Finkel, Eli J ^a,b   Campbell, W Keith ^c  

^a UNIVERSITY OF NORTH CAROLINA   (United States)

^b University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill   (United States)

^c NONE

Author keywords

[No Author keywords available]

Indexed keywords

ADAPTIVE BEHAVIOR; ADULT; ARTICLE; CLINICAL TRIAL; CONFLICT; CONTROLLED CLINICAL TRIAL; CONTROLLED STUDY; COOPERATION; COURTSHIP; FEMALE; HUMAN; HUMAN RELATION; INHIBITION (PSYCHOLOGY); MALE; PERSONALITY TEST; PSYCHOLOGICAL MODEL; RANDOMIZED CONTROLLED TRIAL;

ADAPTATION, PSYCHOLOGICAL; ADULT; CONFLICT (PSYCHOLOGY); COOPERATIVE BEHAVIOR; COURTSHIP; FEMALE; HUMANS; INHIBITION (PSYCHOLOGY); INTERPERSONAL RELATIONS; MALE; MODELS, PSYCHOLOGICAL; PERSONALITY INVENTORY;

EID: 85047683749     PISSN: 00223514     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1037/0022-3514.81.2.263     Document Type: Article

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