Desire in the face of death: Terror management, attachment, and sexual motivation

Personal Relationships

Volumn 18, Issue 1, 2011, Pages 1-19

  Birnbaum, Gurit ^a   Hirschberger, Gilad ^a   Goldenberg, Jamie ^a,b  

^a INTERDISCIPLINARY CENTER   (Israel)

^b UNIVERSITY OF SOUTH FLORIDA   (United States)

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EID: 79952158834     PISSN: 13504126     EISSN: 14756811     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1111/j.1475-6811.2010.01298.x     Document Type: Article

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