Sex buffers intimates against the negative implications of attachment insecurity

Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin

Volumn 36, Issue 4, 2010, Pages 484-498

  Little, Katherine C ^a   McNulty, James K ^a   Russell, V Michelle ^a  

^a UNIVERSITY OF TENNESSEE   (United States)

Author keywords

Attachment; Intimacy; Marriage; Relationship satisfaction; Sex

Indexed keywords

ADULT; ARTICLE; COITUS; DOCUMENTATION; FEMALE; HUMAN; MALE; OBJECT RELATION; PSYCHOLOGICAL ASPECT; SATISFACTION; UNITED STATES;

ADULT; COITUS; DOCUMENTATION; FEMALE; HUMANS; MALE; OBJECT ATTACHMENT; PERSONAL SATISFACTION; TENNESSEE; YOUNG ADULT;

EID: 77950305327     PISSN: 01461672     EISSN: 15527433     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/0146167209352494     Document Type: Article

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