When sex primes love: Subliminal sexual priming motivates relationship goal pursuit

Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin

Volumn 34, Issue 8, 2008, Pages 1057-1069

  Gillath, Omri ^a   Mikulincer, Mario ^b   Birnbaum, Gurit E ^b   Shaver, Phillip R ^c  

^a UNIVERSITY OF KANSAS   (United States)

^b INTERDISCIPLINARY CENTER   (Israel)

^c UNIVERSITY OF CALIFORNIA   (United States)

Author keywords

Close relationships; Motivation; Priming; Sex; Subliminal

Indexed keywords

ADOLESCENT; ADULT; ARTICLE; DEFENSE MECHANISM; FEMALE; HUMAN; HUMAN RELATION; LOVE; MALE; MIDDLE AGED; MOTIVATION; PSYCHOLOGICAL ASPECT; SEXUAL BEHAVIOR;

ADOLESCENT; ADULT; FEMALE; GOALS; HUMANS; INTERPERSONAL RELATIONS; LOVE; MALE; MIDDLE AGED; MOTIVATION; SEXUAL BEHAVIOR; SUBLIMATION;

EID: 46249091368     PISSN: 01461672     EISSN: 15527433     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/0146167208318141     Document Type: Article

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