The Praise Paradox: When and Why Praise Backfires in Children With Low Self-Esteem

Child Development Perspectives

Volumn 10, Issue 2, 2016, Pages 111-115

  Brummelman, Eddie ^a,b   Crocker, Jennifer ^c   Bushman, Brad J ^c,d  

^a UNIVERSITY OF AMSTERDAM   (Netherlands)

^b UTRECHT UNIVERSITY   (Netherlands)

^c OHIO STATE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^d VU UNIVERSITY AMSTERDAM   (Netherlands)

Author keywords

Praise; Self esteem; Transactional

Indexed keywords

EID: 84960153558     PISSN: 17508592     EISSN: 17508606     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1111/cdep.12171     Document Type: Article

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