On feeding those hungry for praise: Person praise backfires in children with low self-esteem

Journal of Experimental Psychology: General

Volumn 143, Issue 1, 2014, Pages 9-14

  Brummelman, Eddie ^a   Thomaes, Sander ^a,b   Overbeek, Geertjan ^a   De Castro, Bram Orobio ^a   Van Den Hout, Marcel A ^a   Bushman, Brad J ^c,d  

^a UTRECHT UNIVERSITY   (Netherlands)

^b UNIVERSITY OF SOUTHAMPTON   (United Kingdom)

^c OHIO STATE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^d VU UNIVERSITY AMSTERDAM   (Netherlands)

Author keywords

Failure; Person praise; Process praise; Self esteem; Shame

Indexed keywords

ACHIEVEMENT; ADOLESCENT; ADULT; AGED; ARTICLE; CHILD; CHILD BEHAVIOR; CHILD PSYCHOLOGY; EMOTION; FEMALE; HUMAN; MALE; MIDDLE AGED; MOTIVATION; PARENT; PSYCHOLOGICAL ASPECT; SELF CONCEPT;

ACHIEVEMENT; ADOLESCENT; ADULT; AGED; CHILD; CHILD BEHAVIOR; CHILD PSYCHOLOGY; EMOTIONS; FEMALE; HUMANS; MALE; MIDDLE AGED; MOTIVATION; PARENTS; SELF CONCEPT;

EID: 84893377587     PISSN: 00963445     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1037/a0031917     Document Type: Article

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