Psychological, physiological, and behavioral responses to a partner in need: The role of compassionate love

Journal of Social and Personal Relationships

Volumn 31, Issue 5, 2014, Pages 601-629

  Collins, Nancy L ^a   Kane, Heidi S ^b   Metz, Molly A ^a   Cleveland, Christena ^c   Khan, Cynthia ^d   Winczewski, Lauren ^a   Bowen, Jeffrey ^a   Prok, Thery ^a  

^a UNIVERSITY OF CALIFORNIA   (United States)

^b WAYNE STATE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^c UNIVERSITY OF NORTH CAROLINA   (United States)

^d ST CATHERINE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

Author keywords

Attention; blood pressure; compassionate love; couples; empathy; prosocial motivation; responsiveness; romantic relationships; social support; stress

Indexed keywords

EID: 84903704547     PISSN: 02654075     EISSN: 14603608     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/0265407514529069     Document Type: Article

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