Partners and Friends in Adulthood

The Wiley-Blackwell Handbook of Adulthood and Aging

Volumn , Issue , 2012, Pages 381-398

  Blieszner, Rosemary ^a   Roberto, Karen A ^a  

^a VIRGINIA POLYTECHNIC INSTITUTE AND STATE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

Author keywords

Benefits, health and well being; Counseling programs; Dyadic relationships; Friendship interactions; Friendship strains, problems; Gender, shaping marital interactions; Health, psychological well being; Marriage, marital like relationships; Partners and friends, in adulthood; Romantic partnerships, friendship ties

Indexed keywords

EID: 84878136177     PISSN: None     EISSN: None     Source Type: Book    
DOI: 10.1002/9781118392966.ch19     Document Type: Chapter

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