A lifetime of caring: Dimensions and dynamics in late-life close relationships

Personal Relationships

Volumn 13, Issue 1, 2006, Pages 1-18

  Blieszner, Rosemary ^a,b,c  

^a VIRGINIA POLYTECHNIC INSTITUTE AND STATE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^b Department of Human Development ^*  (United States)

^c AMERICAN PSYCHOLOGICAL ASSOCIATION   (United States)

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EID: 33644771530     PISSN: 13504126     EISSN: 14756811     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1111/j.1475-6811.2006.00101.x     Document Type: Article

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