The downside of friendship: Sources of strain in older women’s friendships

Journal of Women and Aging

Volumn 20, Issue 1-2, 2008, Pages 169-187

  Moremen, Robin D ^a  

^a NORTHERN ILLINOIS UNIVERSITY   (United States)

Author keywords

Conflict; Expectations; Friendship; Older women; Strain

Indexed keywords

AGED; ARTICLE; COMMUNICATION DISORDER; CONFLICT; FAMILY SIZE; FEMALE; FRIEND; HUMAN; HUMAN RELATION; LITERATURE; MIDDLE AGED; PEER GROUP; PSYCHOLOGICAL ASPECT; SOCIAL SUPPORT; UNITED STATES; WOMEN'S HEALTH;

AGED; AGED, 80 AND OVER; ANECDOTES AS TOPIC; COMMUNICATION BARRIERS; DISSENT AND DISPUTES; FEMALE; FRIENDS; HUMANS; INTERPERSONAL RELATIONS; MIDDLE AGED; PEER GROUP; SAN FRANCISCO; SINGLE PERSON; SOCIAL SUPPORT; WOMEN'S HEALTH;

EID: 46749121437     PISSN: 08952841     EISSN: 15407322     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1300/J074v20n01_12     Document Type: Article

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