Relational listening II: Form & Variation across social and personal relationships

International Journal of Listening

Volumn 14, Issue 1, 2000, Pages 69-93

  Pecchioni, Loretta L ^a   Halone, Kelby K ^b  

^a LOUISIANA STATE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^b CLEMSON UNIVERSITY   (United States)

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EID: 84870042699     PISSN: 10904018     EISSN: 1932586X     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1080/10904018.2000.10499036     Document Type: Article

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