Listening in the parent-teen relationship

International Journal of Listening

Volumn 11, Issue 1, 1997, Pages 88-126

  Coakley, Carolyn G ^a   Wolvin, Andrew D ^a  

^a UNIVERSITY OF MARYLAND   (United States)

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EID: 84885795980     PISSN: 10904018     EISSN: 1932586X     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1207/s1932586xijl1101_6     Document Type: Article

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