Life regrets and the need to belong

Social Psychological and Personality Science

Volumn 3, Issue 6, 2012, Pages 675-681

  Morrison, Mike ^a   Epstude, Kai ^b   Roese, Neal J ^c  

^a UNIVERSITY OF ILLINOIS AT URBANA CHAMPAIGN   (United States)

^b UNIVERSITY OF GRONINGEN   (Netherlands)

^c NORTHWESTERN UNIVERSITY   (United States)

Author keywords

belonging; life domain; love; need t.b.long; regret; social impact; work

Indexed keywords

EID: 84867738612     PISSN: 19485506     EISSN: 19485514     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/1948550611435137     Document Type: Article

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