From What Might Have Been to What Must Have Been: Counterfactual Thinking Creates Meaning

Journal of Personality and Social Psychology

Volumn 98, Issue 1, 2010, Pages 106-118

  Kray, Laura J ^a   George, Linda G ^a   Liljenquist, Katie A ^b   Galinsky, Adam D ^c   Tetlock, Philip E ^a   Roese, Neal J ^d  

^a UNIVERSITY OF CALIFORNIA   (United States)

^b BRIGHAM YOUNG UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^c NORTHWESTERN UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^d UNIVERSITY OF ILLINOIS AT URBANA CHAMPAIGN   (United States)

Author keywords

benefit finding; counterfactual thinking; fate perceptions; meaning; narrative identity

Indexed keywords

ADULT; ARTICLE; COMPREHENSION; CONCEPT FORMATION; CULTURAL ANTHROPOLOGY; FEMALE; HUMAN; HUMAN RELATION; IMAGINATION; LIFE EVENT; MALE; PERCEPTION; SELF CONCEPT; THINKING;

COMPREHENSION; CONCEPT FORMATION; CULTURE; FEMALE; HUMANS; IMAGINATION; INTERPERSONAL RELATIONS; LIFE CHANGE EVENTS; MALE; PERCEPTION; SELF CONCEPT; THINKING; YOUNG ADULT;

EID: 76449099083     PISSN: 00223514     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1037/a0017905     Document Type: Article

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