The role of trust in adolescent–parent relationships: To trust you is to tell you

Interpersonal Trust During Childhood and Adolescence

Volumn , Issue , 2010, Pages 223-246

  Smetana, Judith G ^a  

^a UNIVERSITY OF ROCHESTER   (United States)

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DOI: 10.1017/CBO9780511750946.011     Document Type: Chapter

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