Everyday Lies in Close and Casual Relationships

Journal of Personality and Social Psychology

Volumn 74, Issue 1, 1998, Pages 63-79

  DePaulo, Bella M ^a   Kashy, Deborah A ^b  

^a UNIVERSITY OF VIRGINIA   (United States)

^b NONE

Author keywords

[No Author keywords available]

Indexed keywords

ADOLESCENT; ADULT; AGED; ARTICLE; FEMALE; HUMAN; HUMAN RELATION; MALE; MIDDLE AGED; RECUMBENCY; TIME;

ADOLESCENT; ADULT; AGED; DECEPTION; FEMALE; HUMANS; INTERPERSONAL RELATIONS; MALE; MIDDLE AGED; TIME FACTORS;

EID: 0031608513     PISSN: 00223514     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1037/0022-3514.74.1.63     Document Type: Article

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