Only as happy as the least happy child: Multiple grown children's problems and successes and middle-aged parents' well-being

Journals of Gerontology - Series B Psychological Sciences and Social Sciences

Volumn 67 B, Issue 2, 2012, Pages 184-193

  Fingerman, Karen L ^a   Cheng, Yen Pi ^b   Birditt, Kira ^c   Zarit, Steven ^d  

^a UNIVERSITY OF TEXAS AT AUSTIN   (United States)

^b PURDUE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^c UNIVERSITY OF MICHIGAN   (United States)

^d PENNSYLVANIA STATE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

Author keywords

Family; Grown children; Middle age; Midlife; Stress; Well being

Indexed keywords

ACHIEVEMENT; ADOLESCENT; ADULT; ADULT CHILD; ARTICLE; CHILD PARENT RELATION; COMPARATIVE STUDY; FEMALE; HAPPINESS; HUMAN; HUMAN RELATION; MALE; MIDDLE AGED; PARENT; PSYCHOLOGICAL ASPECT; PSYCHOLOGICAL MODEL; QUALITY OF LIFE; QUESTIONNAIRE; SATISFACTION;

ACHIEVEMENT; ADOLESCENT; ADULT; ADULT CHILDREN; FEMALE; HAPPINESS; HUMANS; INTERPERSONAL RELATIONS; MALE; MIDDLE AGED; MODELS, PSYCHOLOGICAL; PARENT-CHILD RELATIONS; PARENTS; PERSONAL SATISFACTION; QUALITY OF LIFE; QUESTIONNAIRES;

EID: 84859195285     PISSN: 10795014     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1093/geronb/gbr086     Document Type: Article

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