Capturing the complexity of intergenerational relations: Exploring ambivalence within later-life families

Journal of Social Issues

Volumn 63, Issue 4, 2007, Pages 775-791

  Pillemer, Karl ^a   Suitor, J Jill ^b   Mock, Steven E ^c   Sabir, Myra ^a   Pardo, Tamara B ^a   Sechrist, Jori ^b  

^a Department of Obstetrics Gynecology   (United States)

^b PURDUE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

^c YALE UNIVERSITY   (United States)

Author keywords

[No Author keywords available]

Indexed keywords

ADULT; ELDERLY POPULATION; MATERNAL CARE; MATERNAL HEALTH;

EID: 42449132230     PISSN: 00224537     EISSN: 15404560     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1111/j.1540-4560.2007.00536.x     Document Type: Article

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