Adult Attachment Orientations, Stress, and Romantic Relationships

Advances in Experimental Social Psychology

Volumn 45, Issue , 2012, Pages 279-328

  Simpson, Jeffry A ^a   Rholes, W Steven ^b  

^a UNIVERSITY OF MINNESOTA   (United States)

^b TEXAS A AND M UNIVERSITY   (United States)

Author keywords

Adulthood; Attachment figure; Attachment theory; Diathesis stress models; External and acute stress; Relationship threat studies

Indexed keywords

EID: 84857208113     PISSN: 00652601     EISSN: None     Source Type: Book Series    
DOI: 10.1016/B978-0-12-394286-9.00006-8     Document Type: Chapter

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