Perceptions of communication with gay and lesbian family members: Predictors of relational satisfaction and implications for outgroup attitudes

Communication Quarterly

Volumn 58, Issue 1, 2010, Pages 77-95

  Soliz, Jordan ^a   Ribarsky, Elizabeth ^b   Harrigan, Meredith Marko ^c   Tye Williams, Stacy ^d  

^a UNIVERSITY OF NEBRASKA LINCOLN   (United States)

^b UNIVERSITY OF ILLINOIS AT SPRINGFIELD   (United States)

^c STATE UNIVERSITY OF NEW YORK   (United States)

^d CREIGHTON UNIVERSITY   (United States)

Author keywords

Communication accommodation; Intergroup communication; Outgroup attitudes; Relational satisfaction; Sexual identity

Indexed keywords

EID: 79957906945     PISSN: 01463373     EISSN: 17464102     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1080/01463370903538622     Document Type: Article

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