Who am I in relation to them? Gay, lesbian, and queer people leave the city to attend rural family weddings

Journal of Family Issues

Volumn 23, Issue 3, 2002, Pages 323-348

  Oswald, Ramona Faith ^a  

^a UNIVERSITY OF ILLINOIS AT URBANA CHAMPAIGN   (United States)

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EID: 0036248723     PISSN: 0192513X     EISSN: None     Source Type: Journal    
DOI: 10.1177/0192513X02023003001     Document Type: Article

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